This year, many went on long -awaited vacation only in the fall. And, possibly, stronger than ever, dreamed of new impressions, vivid emotions and, possibly, even love experiences. What to expect from a resort novel, how to complete it without consequences and what to do with feelings?
Today, when the future is unclear, and in the present we are faced with unexpected restrictions and difficulties, rest away from home, on the seashore – the opportunity to at least forget about everything for a short time. Plunge into new sensations, and sometimes tie a non -binding novel. But is it always possible to maintain a connection with reality in this situation?
What to expect from a resort novel
Typically, resort novels remain in the same place where they began – at the resort. It is somewhat naive to wait for something serious from easy relationships with the one you met on vacation and, perhaps, you will never see again. Often fleeting lovers disappear the next morning after the first night. And in order to avoid disappointments and not spoil the rest, you need to be prepared for such a development of events. Rest House, sanatorium or five -star hotel is not the best place to look for a partner for a long relationship.
Think about what you really want to get from the novel. After all, such relationships often do not imply mutual obligations. Even if your partner cares beautifully, gives gifts, says pleasant words, this does not mean that in ordinary life he is a wealthy person. Often in a couple of weeks of rest, a person can spend more than a few months at home.
It happens that in the resort I want to relax, chat with different partners. It is better to immediately inform a new acquaintance that you do not plan to continue relations longer than, for example, for one night. Openness, honesty will save you from the need to look for a way out of an ambiguous situation then. After all, your partner can look differently at an affair with you.
It is also important to part also correctly so as not to harm either yourself or the partner. It is worth explaining in advance that you are looking for an easy relationship. Or, conversely, to warn a partner that they would like to continue communication, at least at the time of vacation. And if he
refuses, there will be no omissions between you, you will save your nerves and time. And in the morning you will not be disappointed that you woke up in the room in full solitude.
Do not forget that random ties always increase various risks. Remember the contraception, try to get to know the partner better, if possible, ask to show the passport. If what the new lover offers you does not suit you, it is unpleasant for you, clearly announce it about it.
If everything is serious
You provided everything, explained your position, you were fine together, you did not plan to continue your relationship after rest, but suddenly fell in love with. Tell the partner about this. If your feelings remain unanswered, try to stop the relationship, how painful you are. Perhaps these experiences will become valuable experience after. In any case, remember: “You will not be forcibly sweet”. And the sooner you get rid of illusions, the better.
But even if you are happy for three days, your feelings are mutual, you promise to each other to meet after rest, retain vigilance. It is important to find out as much as possible about the partner, because the possibility of fraud is not excluded.
Often resort novels end in the fact that the in love vacationer finds an empty safe in the morning and the absence of a wallet. Therefore, you should not tell a new friend how much money you have, where you store it. If possible, do not invite an unknown to your room at all.
How pleasant the resort romance will be, not only on the partner, but also on you. If you manage to relax, surrender to your feelings, but at the same time you will not forget about safety and openly discuss your desires with your partner, you can try new things, experiment and spend time, enjoying every minute.